I'm glad you were finally able to move on from that mindset. I think people-pleasers can also be complainers somehow. Like my friend here who chose to complain to me instead of doing something about it. I seem to have a fixer mindset, which is equally bad. It is never ok to step boundaries, especially when others set them. You have to realize not everyone is meant to be your friend... people who love you will show you that love :)